You’ve probably seen some of these very common and very frustrating behaviors in people you know and in characters in movies you’ve seen and books you’ve read, beginning with . . .

Guilt: Parents’ Weapon of Choice

And What You Can Do About It

There is a profound connection between the feelings of guilt and resentment and the problems you struggle with: sex, money, weight, ambition, relationships, and parenting. A deeper understanding of these feelings will help you solve these problems.

You developed mechanisms of accommodation, rebellion, and mimicry to survive growing up in your family. Let’s look at mimicry.

You’ve got the talent, you’ve got the ability, so why can’t you overcome your problems?