You’ve tried everything but that “thing” you are addicted to just won’t go away. So you start looking for external things to solve the problem. I mean things like nicotine patches, self help books, step programs or articles like this one. There is a simple truth you need to understand.

Have you ever had someone attacking you and you can’t figure out why?
It happens more than we realize. Quite often, an angry or even violent reaction from another person is due to a conflict or perceived threat stemming from his or her inner belief system. On a fundamental level, the information or action triggered fear for their survival.

You’ve tried everything, you’ve listen to the experts, in frustration you shout out, “Why can’t I seem to figure this out?” This can be stated for many areas in life, whether you are working on health, finances, business, improved communication skills or relationships. Quite often when we start out on the path to change one or more areas of our lives, we hit stumbling blocks and set backs. Yet, there is a way through, over and under the barriers.